Sim choosing who to invite to a meal at a table in Sims 4, representing the Choose Who You Call To Meal mod.
This mod lets you pick who joins meals (or drink invites) and whether you eat too, adding choice to Sims’ mealtime interactions.

Choose Who You Call To Meal by LittleMsSam is a tuning mod for The Sims 4 that gives the player more control over who gets called to eat together, and whether the calling Sim participates in the meal or not.

Key Features
It adds a new option “Call to Meal and Eat…” where you choose which Sims you want to eat with you. It also adds “Call to Meal…” which lets you invite other Sims to eat without the calling Sim eating, unless they are hungry and autonomous. The normal “Call to Meal” option remains available. The mod adds a “Drink” option on drinks so you can ask other Sims to join you for a drink.

Mod Release Date & Updates
Originally released September 4, 2022.

Gameplay Role / Impact
This mod improves mealtime interactions, letting you customize who participates in shared meals. It’s especially useful for families, roommates, or any group Sims when you want more realistic dinners and social dining without forcing everyone or the host to eat.

Community Feedback
Players often appreciate that it helps reduce chaotic mealtimes, especially when Sims don’t want to eat but are forced to “come to meal.” Many like that it works well alongside LittleMsSam’s “No Auto Food Grab After Cooking” mod.

About the Creator
LittleMsSam is a prominent modder known for gameplay tweaks that enhance realism and social interaction, especially in communal and household settings.

Editor’s Note
Who It’s For: Those who want more control over mealtime social dynamics and shared meal invitations.
Why Use It: It adds flexibility and realism to meal events, helping avoid unwanted forced meal participation or over-eating.

REQUIREMENTS:
Base Game
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